I need help. I've just retired from wearing a uniform for 25 years (Army). I've worn nothing for 25 years but jeans and t-shirts and camouflage and sweats and sneakers. I'm trying to get fashion right, but I feel so lost. I'm older now and after having 5 kids my body just isn't what I remember. I'm about a women's size 12 (can't do missy for some reason). And I watch all these shows with my 13 year old daughter and I see girls that are a size 2 or worse yet a size 0. What the heck? Now I feel fashion backward and fat. I don't knwo what to wear. I keep looking for that perfect little black dress but I honestly don't think they make it any more. You know, some that can work for career with a blazer and then look great at night with a nice necklace and earrings. My fashion sense has left me for the last 25 years. Anybody else feel like this?