well hi everybody.i m a person with wat character even i don't know but i want help of all those people who can really help me out of everything. to start from the beginning :when i was in 11th standard i had a girlfriend whom i liked very much.i loved her more than anyone in my life,i always tried to give her all that wat she wantedand wat was poosible for me to give her. i m myself a girl.we both had a good friendship. after few days we started having sexual relations in between us. many times she used to come to my house and even i used to go to her house.then started our 12th satndard and srill we were going on the same way.we were conscious about our studies but on the other hand we were as if addicted to each other.i don't know how days passed and i got into that habbit of getting a glimpse of her face once in a day.but suddenly september,2005 came and she said that she does want to meet me and i thought that maybe i was causing probs in her studies and so she said so. i agreed to it. but after our board exam was over in 12th ,she did not talk to me and told everyone thtshe does not wish to see my face. well even today i feel that she should talk to me .i love her as much as i loved her before." friends i just want your help that if i wish to forget her what should i do. otherwise i will not be able to concentrate on my further studies.so just help me out .i hope that someone will surewly help me.i do hope for a +ve answer.


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well you started sexual things after only a few days....... so I cant help but think you didnt know much about each other and have an intiamte relationship in that way. Perhaps she was experimenting with her sexuality and has now decided she likes guys and not girls. the only way to find out why she doesn't want to see you is to ask, but it's a school girl thing, high school relationships dont often last far beyond school.

HI every one i am a girl from afghan i was 8 when i left my country i was on scape from war for 10 years going to 6 different countries in order to come to USA i left behid in eudcation it has been 7 years since i am living in usa from the day i came to this country the only dream i have is finishing college , that us why from the first year in the country till now iam in school trying to achaive my dreams. in my cultur it is not acceptabel to marry someone who is not muslim I met this guy from my country and after 3 years of being engaged we got married , everything was so going so great i thought this is it this is the love i have been dreaming of since i was a little girl , the only problem we had was , his family was living in Boston while i was in Philadelphia. the first day i met him i told him that how much my school meant to me and there will be no way i would give up my dream, i got in to a surgical tach programm after being on the waiting list for 2 years , and all the suddent my husband and his mom put me in a satuation where i had to choose bettween leaving my school and living with his family in Boston and leaving my husband for school . I was lost we married for just 2munths and my school starts in a week i had no choice than saying that i have to finsh my school and not move to Boston after making this choice my husband left and moved back to Boston , he took all the money i saved during the summer for my school , so i can;r pay , he closed all the doors of any kind of comunacation with me here ia m once again left all alone and living my dream of getting education

Hi! Just hold your head up high, you will get through this. Please don't let what others think of you determine who you are. Be true and honest, and this will pass. You will meet someone beautiful...just for you!

I'm glad that u ask 4 advice.first of all i don't want u to feel that i am being judgmental and i am not because there is only one Judge[God].u have to love yourself and concentrate on your studies in order to get whereyou want to be in life.Ask God to help you out this situation,because he has all the answers you need.He can be your strenght and give you strength to overcome any kind of stronghold.accept Christ into your life if you already have'nt. confess with your mouth and believe in your heart that jesus Christ is lord.you will be able to do all things through Christ Jesus who strengthens you.may God bless you and keep u mentally, physically,spiritually.there is your positive answer with the love of Christ with it.