My current girlfriend and the love of my life, is the first girl I've ever been with to do this and I have a few questions for anyone with experiance with this.
The biggest question is what do you do to deal with the ammount of fluid. It doesn't bother me, in fact it's quite arousing to me. The only problem is trying to keep the sheets dry so we can sleep enjoyably afterwards. We've tried towels, and they just don't cut it.
Secondly, most information I've found said the liquid is odorless. My girlfriend is pretty sure she isn't peeing. She knows it feels different for her. But the fluid does have a distinct odor. We've both said it smells kind of like cherios cereal, but stronger and more intense.
She has always got extremely wet from sex, but I'm the first to get her to spray like she does now. So it's new for us both and we are trying to figure out how to let her keep experiencing the pleasure, while still keeping the bed sheets dry and fresh to sleep on. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.

Have some experience since my wife did this a lot when she was pregnant. I thought she was peeing but I finally did enough research to determine she was having a female ejaculation. I too was turned on by it and liked it when she would have them. It wouldn't produce an odor at first but after a day or so it did smell a bit.

We always handled the issue with towels. I understand there are certain waterproof sheets that you can purchase that work well. You still put the towel down and if things leak through the towel it won't soak into the sheets.

We've experienced the same thing... There is an odor but not offensive. It's definately not urine, it's thicker.

We've decided to just use multiple towels under us. We tried the waterproof sheets and they worked great but just weren't comfortable. They seemed very rigid.

It used to bother my wife ALOT but when she saw how arroused I'd become and after doing some research on it, she much more comfortable with it.

Short answer... Invest in thick towels.

My ex used to ejaculate too. When we first hooked up sex was, so so. But after a few months she began having multiple orgasms then on to a roller coaster of orgasms, multiple whatever. Then the night came when she came. She freaked out after, she held me tight and I had to soothe her for quite sometime. After that the "showers" as we called them became an every time thing. And not just one time, but multiple times in one evening. I could also make her "shower" in less than five minutes, no lie. What caused this? It never happened to her before. Was it just a time in her life, because she was 39 yrs old.? Was it a psychological emotion she had with me that she may have lacked with other men? Was I doing something right? And since she was my first serious relationship where sex was constant, have I set myself up for disappointment with other women? I think I have, she always said I was doing it to her, making all this happen, but I always said it's all you honey. Oh yeah, when she came, it reminded me of the consistency of a tear.

I read a book on the female ejaculation theory and the author claims that 90% of all women are capable of having one but only about 30% actually ever get there. There are two things a woman must have to achieve a female ejaculation. First they must have g-spot stimulation. Second they must be able to get over the feeling that they are about to urinate. So that is why your ex never had the experience until several years into your relationship. When she felt the urge to urinate - she of course tensed up and held it back so not to have an accident. Once she became more comfortable with you and her sex life she relaxed more and let it go. The one thing women need to remember is that it is virtually impossible to urinate when having an orgasm. So when the "need to pee" feeling comes when she is close to orgasm she needs to relax and let it happen. It's not easy but it eventually will happen.

Actually the so called "research" on GSPOT orgasms and ejaculation is a JOKE. Anybody who has found the GSpot in their woman and is capable of producing unlimited multiple G-Gasms resulting in fluid discharge already knows beyond a shadow of a doubt that it is NOT urine. Taste and smell makes it completely obvious. Many researchers are still not convinced the GSpot even exists. One of the latest studies involved carving up 13 CADAVERS looking for nerve clusters, vaso-congestive tissue, the letter G - anything. Their informed conclusion was that there was NOT enough evidence that a G thing existed.

So if the so called sexperts don't know it is not surprising many couples hear about it, play around with little to poor results and give up without ever finding it or making it trigger correctly which is a real pity!

My girlfriend has started to female ejaculate recently. At first it was not much, but now there is quite a large volume, I'd say up to 4 tablespoons. I am pleased I can give her this experience and it is quite a 'wow, I did that!' kind of thing. I worry that she feels a little odd about it as the last time it happened, she said 'what's happening to me?' I told her that it was nothing to worry about, that it was a good thing, that we'd just have to buy a matress protector or something. She understands why it is happening and I think is essentially happy about it as her orgasms are incredibly intense. She knows it is not pee as she says it feels different and it doesn't smell or feel like pee. Nor does it taste like it. I'd describe it as slightly metallic smell/taste with a hint of that smell ants put off when they are threatened. Has anyone else had this experience where there partner is a little confused about the volume of ejaculate?

AB

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Originally posted by imdrewtoo:
Was it just a time in her life, because she was 39 yrs old.?

I don't think it has anything to do with her age, my girlfriend is 21. Perhaps more to do with sexual maturity and feeling comfortable with your partner.

AB

The first few times this happens to the woman she thinks she just pee'd all over you which I am guessing is pretty embarrasing. So you are doing the right thing in assuring her it is not pee and telling her it's ok. The best thing you can do is act all giddy when this happens like you love when she does that. Put a towel down before hand and tell her to go all out and have a great time. When she is done tell her how much you enjoyed her doing that and loved every minute of it. Doing that will make it a positive thing - rather than something she needs to be embarrased about.

Hey - it works for me!!

I dont think age matters girls just need to know how to do it. I figured it out and I do it at least 7 times while my husband and I have sex...its AWESOME!!! but I just have one question.....has any1 ever tasted it??? My hubby is scared to just curious...let me know thankx..

me and my boyfriend of a year and a half had a fight one day last week and afterwards we had the best make up sex ever and i squirted with him the first time. Now it happens every time we have sex and i don't think he likes it. I don't think he likes getting that wet and then being able to sleep confortably in the bed afterwards. Is there any way to make me stop squirting

Don't try to stop it - all you will do is mess up a great "O". Just put some towels down and let it rip.

Not only is it a great orgasm for women, it also gives them an emotionl release and it makes couples that much closer to one another. It's fun to watch women just let it all go.