Ok well I have used vibrators since I was quite young and had amazing orgasms(clitoral only), as well as with the showerhead. Now, since I am so used to them I am afraid that I can't get an orgasm any other way. I can't get it using my hand, oral, or sex. I feel like nothing can go as fast as I need it to go, like a vibrator does. I wanted to know if anyone had a similar experience and what they have done if so.
I can't say that I have been in the exact same place that you are with using vibrators since a young age but lately I have been using them in bed with my man. Don't get me wrong, he's great in bed but we were just looking for some different things for stimulation to change things up. Now, where the problem comes in is, I have been using them everytime we've been in bed lately and recently had a problem having an orgasm "the natural way" with oral sex. It was a major frustration for both of us. Yeah, nothing can vibrate and stimulate you quite the way a vibrator does. However, how I overcame this situation was just to go "cold turkey" and even if I wasn't able to orgasm with oral sex at first after giving up the vibrator, we still continued the old fashioned way until I was able to get used to regular, human touch and stimulation. Being that you have been using them for years, it may take a while but you really need to give your body a break from stimulation from a vibrator. I have known the same kind of thing happen to men who masturbate too much. When they go to have sex with a woman, they are unable to orgasm until they wean themselves off of their hand. My man just verified that as I was typing this!! I hope this helps - good luck!
