I was just looking for some insight and ran across this site hoping someone could help. My husband and I have been married for a little over a year and been together almost 4 years. I have discovered that he has been looking at internet porn for the last 3 to 4 months (maybe longer) and I can't seem to figure out why. We have a great sexual relationship. In fact, up until about 3 weeks ago when he started working nights we were having sex almost every night. I have been thinking about this for a while and keep thinking well at least he's not physically cheating, but it is just driving me crazy not knowing. I keep asking myself if I am lacking somewhere. Any help or insight would be greatly appreciated.

Not a big deal. Men are VERY visually stimulated and it is quite common for men to look at porn. It doesn't mean he is interested in meeting or doing anything with these other women or that there is something wrong with you. He is just getting stimulated which in turn usually means better sex with you since he is all worked up after viewing this stuff. It only becomes a problem if he starts substituting porn instead of sex with his wife or if it becomes an obsession where he spends way too much time surfing the net vs more value added activities.