my wife claims that she has no or little sexual desire, and i can understand sexual dysfunction I read up on it and it could apply. But I also get this nagging feeling she might have some other interest. She has alot of guys calling her and her calling alot of guys on a frequent basis. and one time she left work 10 min early and came home an hour late..... am i being insecure because of the lack of affection or do i have the right to be concerned. oh she says they are just friends.
(single i might add)

This is such a tough situation to be in I know! It could be sexual dysfunction, or it could be that she is having an affair and if that is the case be thankful that she isn't bringing those men into the bed with you! You need to talk to her about it and let her know how you feel about everything and that you need affection same as everyone else. Sex is a big part of any romantic relationship, especially a marriage. Good luck I hope everything gets sorted out!

wow, talking about red flags...I believe she is pushing to end the relationship...just hasnt got the guts to end it herself. as in... she is looking for the best reason to leave and that would be to say that "he told me to" and/or it "wasnt my idea".so in order for her to come out of this "smelling like a rose" and/or to have a clear conscience.
and/or shes just looking for a "green light".
and like ms. teen.says..."be thankful that she isn't bringing those men into the bed with you!"
Im surprised it hasnt happened.
sorry dude, but it doesnt look good from this end of my monitor. Dave.
oops, edit>>>

[This message was edited by davidaevans on 03-16-05 at 01:03 AM.]