A few months ago, I got up early one morning to find my husband's e-mail open, but when i tried to log in into his account i was not able to ..this made me feel curious.. and i searched over the Internet how to get any email password and found one site its an Email Detectives website i placed an order to get his email password ..I was amazed to see how these guys can do these things..anyways i found his original Password and was horrified to read a rather plaintive and deeply personal mail to his ex girlfriend. Reading the entire letter, I was quick to realize he had been gng around with her.
I chose not to say anything, because I couldn't figure out what to say, other than I was hurt that he hadn't told me about the contact.
There was nothing overtly sexual about them, but they were personal. When I managed to work one of the women's names into a conversation, he flat-out lied to me and denied ever talking to her or writing to her.
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Moderator - why do you continuously allow these people to put their spam ads on this site? They have been doing this a lot lately and need their usernames needs to be banned as soon as you see the ads and their messages need to be deleted.
This site is for real people with real questions only - not for pushing their products.
Thank you Nunnzie...This type of post is considered soliciation and is not permitted.
As I have over 200 forums to moderate... I can't read everything... and chances are slim to none that another moderator will be brought in.
Appreciate anyone who may encounter these type of posts... please use the yellow triangle icon to "report this post". It will then go to the moderator queue for escalation.
i found e-mails my wife forgot to delete to a "john doe", writing "noone will find out on this end" and "we must go on with our lives and not hate each other" and "i became weak and fragile. I DID confront her and of course she denied anything occured and that I was paranoid. I also found a profile she set up on Match.com with a phony screenname, about a year ago. I am lost, hurt, and so confused. I guess I want "concrete" evidence or at least a confession, for some kind of closure, you know? I even blame myself at times, eventhough I'm a hopeless romantic. We have kids together and have beeen together over 10 years. I am faithful and try to keep our home as happy as I can, even though this is killing me inside. what do i do??
sorry mate but I would suggest that u dump her fast because she will destroy your life. Making a go with it (rubbish) she wont stop she will just be more secretive. very rarely a woman will tell the truth about an afair as they are very good at deception not like us men as in most cases we come clean if confronted
