hi i am new to this but i have a few things i need some advice on? i have had no desire to be with my husband for a while now and i have met another man who is also married and found out that he was a friend of mine at a school when we were like 4 and i haven't seen him since then.didn't even know it was him until i saw the group picture we have and i remebered the name. so we decided to meet one day and he said he was aroused just talking on the phone to me sounded kinda weird so we met and he said that he wanted to get together like have a one night stand i ended up kissing him then we just talked a little bit nothing more happended and then he said he didn't want to,we should just be friends i said okay but he will call every now and then and just talk about nothing. i don't know if he is intrested or just weird. he seems really nice but a friend of mine thinks he has issues.

Your post is kind of strange since you are acting like your only problem you have is to figure out if your old school mate is weird or is a potential new lover for you. This is strange since your real issue that you said nothing about is that you are MARRIED and for some reason have no desire for him anymore. So why are you not trying to fix your relationship with your hubby or if you have given up why have you not taken the proper steps to finish the relationship?

None of this is good. What is your goal?? Do you want a relationship with your husband? or do you want a divorce? those are the two things that must be decided first before having a relationship with another person, not to mention he is also married and this is not a good thing either.

thanks.

I am currently in a relationship where my partner is married. It does not work! She goes home to him and tells me that he knows about us. It is very difficult and you are in a no win situation. This guy seems like he is interested in only one thing since you talk about nothing on the phone and he just wanted to be friends when you kissed him. He also just asked for a one night stand. Don't hurt yourself. If your marriage is not what it used to be and you are considering going outside the marriage, make it something that is worth it.