I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 3 years now and i still cant trust him. At the beginning of our relationship it didn't bother me because i didn't think we would be serious. The first year dating was regular, shy;infatuation; and lust. He was full of lies but i didn't even think about what he was doing because i only saw him at night. Later, i found out that he was doing some bad "things" that hurts himself and he quit it in a heart beat for me. This is the second year now and hes stull full of lies! I dont know what im doing wrong, or if im being plain stupid for staying with someone that i cant trust.
He tells me he'll call me back, 4 hours later, no call. In fact, sometimes he doesnt even call me till the next day. He lies to me wen he says hes doing something with his friends and reality is, hes doing the total opposite. I dont get along with his friends and they feel the same way with me. That makes me nervous because if my boyfriend did something, they wouldnt tell me. Another thing is that i dont get along with his family. His mom cant accept me because she thinks im too shy and quiet (i dont like her either). His brother is very known to alot of girls and has 3 girlfriends.
I dont know what to do! Theres no trust in our relationship and hes always telling me that hes gonna change for me and it will take time. Its even harder now since i moved and i dont see him all the time which doubles the stress for me. He does many things that i disagree with, porn, smoke, drink, party, hyprocrite(i dont know how to spell that), and hes a very jealous person. What should i do?

Ok girl - wake up as smell the coffee.

Do yourself a favor and read your post and determine yourself why you are still in this relationship. I doubt you will find one reason that you are hanging in there with this guy.

I know you have hope that he will "change" over night but I have to tell you the truth. He isn't going to change no matter what he tells you and don't be silly and think you can keep nagging him and he will see the light. He is a proven liar, addict, jerk, etc. He has been that way for a long, long time and will stay that way for longer than you have patients for.

So do yourself a favor and dump him and move on to better things in life.