We have been married almost 11 yrs, no kids, I've recently found out that she has been lying to me about almost everything she has ever told me. From being pregnant to where she graduated and when. And pretty much everything in between. She doesn't even seem to feel sorry about it.I'm looking for help, any help is appreciated. I still love her but I just don't trust her at all. any suggestions?

Hey tn,
How can you live with someone who's been lying to you, is caught, and doesn't care about the pain and grief she's caused? What she has been doing is horrible. Now you will be questioning anything and everything, that's not the way to live...in worry. My suggestion is to get a divorce and find someone who appreciates the truth and your love.

tnfirefighter-

It is so sad to hear this kind of story. I too think you should take your dignaty back and leave. She is not respecting you and it sounds like she has never respected you. You sound like such a nice person, you don't need that. I have a divorced sister who had a horriable and abusive ex husband who luckly she left when her kids were very small. They don't even know him (which is a good thing). My sister is such a good person who would make the best wife but has had no luck because good guys like you are being drained by women who don't appriciate what they have. I just hope one day she will find a nice guy like you. Good luck in what ever decision you make.

Amber

I hate to see anyone in this much emotional pain. I hope you can find some professional councelling because it sounds like you need all the help you can get. I wish you the best

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