I'm not laughing. as a female who has been with a few men and never encountered anything large, I can assure you that there are a lot of misconceptions about size, there might be some men out there who are huge, but there are more that are in your same situation, you seem to be a very intelligent man and as that, if some woman you were being intimate with was only concerned about size and her pleasure, you shouldn't even want to be with her in the first place, there is a lot more to sex than an orgasm, and I'm sure you know there are also other ways to find pleasure, if a man had to go around showing the size of his penis the way we women have to show our breast size there would be more surgery options out there, but there aren't so my advice to you is find a woman who can be with you regardless of size, there are always going to be insecurities when two people are taking their clothes off in front of another person, try to find an intelligent and mature woman that you can hold a conversation with, enjoy each others company, and the sex can be great no matter what size, trust me I speak from experience
I agree with the ladies comments though in a way I agree with your comments as well. Though I suppose a lot of people would say that I don't count because I'm not actually a biological male. Well to me I am male and have much the same problem but instead of wanting my *thing* lagers I want *it*. Just imagine being able to feel having *it* as if it were actually there, like a ghost limb they say amputees feel, yet nothing is there! In a way I feel your pain but in another way I'm envious because if I could only have the member itself, no matter the size I'd be really happy.
I guess then I'll end with a kind of cheesy and over used sort of suggestion.
Be thankful for what you have. Be content with what you have. I'm not saying to not even think about enlargment but just be satisfied with what you got and if a possibility comes for you to enlarge go for it if its truely what you want.
I agree with the lady. My fiance is not big or long at all. We've been together for 5 years and its not a big deal. Im not gonna lie and say that its always great cuz its not, but I love him and trust..if he cant please me with it this time he definitaly makes up for it in the end if you know what I mean. They say sex is a big part of a relationhsip and thats true but its not all about being hung like a horse either. Its about finding that right person for you. I have had others who were small as well and Im not going to lie, I didn't go back more but I would never belittle a man (especially in that dept.). You've gotta be a cruel person to do something like that. But I found the right person and yes his "thing" is small but I love him and I love "it" and you will find someone who feels this way. We are out there..we're not all evil...
quote:Originally posted by freq247365: I would have my penis enlarged. There. I said it. ...
No laughter here. It sounds like you've met some pretty insensitive women though.
I know I saw a show - not sure if it was on Discovery Health or what channel - on plastic surgery and one of the men featured had had a penis enlargment. In fact, I think he'd had two - one to initially enlarge to a more "normal" size (his words) and a 2nd surgery to make it even larger. From what I recall, everything turned out just fine for him. Wish I could remember the show. Maybe it was on Discovery Health. Have you tried writing to someone from their actual channel to inquire if they've run something on this? Maybe they'd have the show available on tape or DVD or for download & you could get an idea of what was done, etc...
