OK, I've had several posts recently where I wrote a fairly long reply to someone's comment or question, and I didn't use any offensive language, and still got a message that my post contained "trigger" or "large" words and had to be held for administrative approval. IME, in the past, such posts have never made it to the forum, and if I had time and patience, I had to try again - sometimes more than once - before I found the right way to say things that didn't trigger this problem. I'd say your automated filters are perhaps a little too sensitive? This is extremely irritating, and if you're wondering why the forum is not as active as some others, this may be why.