Wow. I have seen the espiode before. But last night I could really relate to what she felt. I have just starting getting into the dating scene. To hear that she still had fat girl mentally or MJO say she was datng as a fat girl. It all just hit home. I have been struggling with how to handle a guy really being interested in me. I am afraid that it's all just a game- the way and reason's a guy messes around with a fat girl. I am afraid I am too thin- 127 5/3 and a size 0 hangs on me. So I am eating to combat all the insecurity I face as a fat girl. (I am weighed in regulary because of my eating disorder)

I was glad to hear I am not the only one who has difficult with his portion of th esurgery. And I agree with MJO- be careful hwo we think of success for a WLS- success means more then just how many pounds you get off.