well, I recommend you BEFRIEND a person of the opposite sex and really pay attention. It'll come in handy later on if you ever marry and or "live in sin" (better!). 2nd advice, realize that 30 means nothing. It "ain't nothing but a number" and you could die tomorrow so just live for today and be happy with your decisions (good or bad) because they'll be your memories tomorrow. 3rd piece of advice -- do what you want! don't listen to anyone else, especially all of us!, because you have to live with your memories and you have to be the bearer of your burdens. Enjoy & happy 30th. ....stacey d

AMEN Stacy D! heck, I'm 34, haven't done everything I want to do, but that doesn't stop me from trying! Age is just a number. You have a great outlook!