I just saw the link posted on MSNBC and thought I would check out the fuss. I can't believe the amount of negativity on these boards. First of all noone has a right to tell me to work or not and surely if you disagree you have no right to force your opinions on me. It hard staying at home. It is hard working. I have four kids and I work full-time. Stayed home for awhile. My kids are all good well adjusted kids. I laughed at some of these comments. Having your kids raised by total strangers... ah hello you have a new teacher every year in school. That would be a new stranger. The show is a TV REALITY SHOW. You should be very careful about judging others.