And when i say you COULDN"T I mean you couldn't get it maybe some moms do put there kids in daycare or homes or whatever. I have been raising a 15yr that is confined to a wheelchair totally handicap son that has never been in a home in his entire life. None of my kids have ever seen daycare ever.My kids are my life and they know it. And believe me I would love to do one of these show things and just because I have raised my kids so well they would be behimd every single step of the way.I don't have to pay my kids or trick them or any of that crap.I teach my kids if you give respect then you get respect.