well i know I'm a stay home mom but. I'm coming from a different point of view. This time I'm talking about why I'm so glad I made the choice I did about being a stay home mom. I have a friend and she an her husband both work but she works not 1 job not 2 jobs but 3 jobs an her kids age 4 an 9 months are always alone. They love when people visit cause then they are getting attention. And it breaks my heart because they love when people just sit an talk to them. They cry when they're mom leaves.And then they just watch tv or sit an play with the cat.I know we're in a world where men an woman have to work.But we need to also take a good look not just a glance. Sit down an look at the children think what if. I was in they're place how would I feel. Our grandmas remember the stories they use to tell when they were raising they kids.What happened to the way things use to be.Teens are so out of hand these days because the role models that were there back then are not there today.Both parents are gone an they are doing what ever they wanna do. Kids need guidance.If they're is more an more kids not having an adult to guide they're life what is the future gonna be like.God would be disappointed to what this world has become.

Things really aren't that black and white---you can't lump all working parents into that little box. Many working moms work part-time. Many working parents have taken a leave while their kids were younger and have gone back now that their kids are school aged. Many have adjusted their schedules so they'd be home when their kids come home from school. Many work opposite shifts (like nurses for example) with their husbands so the kids are not in day care 5 days a week. Many have grandma help out a couple of days a week and send their kids to day care part-time. There are sooo many options, and I personally do not know many working moms who have their babies in day care 5 days a week 10 hours at a time. I personally do not think that is an ideal situation, but the point is that *most* of the time, that is not the reality for working mothers today. It is possible to be creative with scheduling, care-taking, etc. etc. so that a situation is created that is best for *everyone* involved--parents and children alike.