2 mths go I GOT a small tatto just below my navel.I had my childrens names in japaness around a small heart and a flower in the middle
just after I had gotten it and it had healed I whent to show my kids what I had gotten( because it was of them)I have split custody of them and they were with there father at the time.The day I was to leave I got a phone call saying they were in a car crash and had lost all 3 of them.So with out knowing it I had a memorial tattoo on me.
So even tho you get a tatoo not meaning it to be so meaning for you just might find it to be more important to you then you think

I'm very sorry for your loss. I hope you have people nearby to help you through your grief.

Wow I am sorry to hear about your children. I bet you look at your tattoo in a whole different light it had meaning before but now I bet it has even more.

That's just horrible. I'm so sorry.

I am sorry for your loss! I hope that your tattoo makes you feel closer to them and pulls you through this time. I am greiving the loss of my father jsut over a year ago. He commited suicide and the same feelings come along with sudden loss. I know how tough it is, but there is always your tat and your memories that for you to hold onto. I hope your heart heals and you find peace! Your tat sounds wonderful!!