I went over his house this past Friday night and we had a great night, great sex, now we both said we would not change anything (after our talk)so I felt fine with everything. Now he has been working alot this week he has a fulltime job and then a part time job at night, we worked together 2 days this week and he text mess. me, I am going away this weekend and he is moving his sis into her dorm, I asked him tonight when I was leaving work if we could try and get together Thursday night,he said he would see how he felt when he got done work at 10pm. I am not sure if he means it or if he is just trying to cool things off after our conversation, (read post below) (but we both said we would not chnage anything)and we usually spend time together during the week, I am just so messed up over this guy I can not figure myself out. I am just wondeirng if he changed his mind after the talk i know he is the only one who can say but i am just writing to c thought I am in dyer need of help I am wondering if he is regreting Friday and if it was our last time together he has not changed anything else not sure what to do I got my head in my rear
Sounds like to me that you are freaking out a little early. If what he said things are cool, and he is coming out of something bad he is going to go slower then normal. You need to relize that you may be reading into this something that just isnt there because of your insurities. He is moving his sister and does have two job, it just may be that he is tired. If you want to see where he is by not talking do something sexy and romantic and see his response. But the best thing you could do it talk, talk, talk. Keep the comunication open and tell him your feelings, and most important listen to what he is saying and not what you think he is saying. Best of luck show up at
Careful not to read too much into things. Freaking out over every little thing is just gonna make you look insecure and migh push him away. You really need to relax about the whole thing. Let what's gonna happen happen and don't worry so much. You will know if things start moving in the wrong direction and will know when its time for a change. Until then, Chill out and enjoy the time you spend with him.
Wow, wannabe, I asked this guy I'm dating where he saw us going with it and he nearly gave me the same exact answer. But first he said, "I've been thinking about that too and it *is* a really good question."
