I really like this guy and we are friends. We started flirting with each other and I let him run his hands up my thigh and touch my breasts a couple times. The thing is I don't wanna just be friends with him.. or "friends with benefits" like this. I think I want something more, a relationship. During the last time we were together like this we talked about things and about your feelings. And yeah he said he liked me more than just friends and being physically close to me, but now I just think he said whatever just so we can make each other feel good. Its like he just likes me when its convenient for him. He said he would consider asking me out, but around this same time his close friend liked me. So the last time I was with him was the last time. The following week he acts like nothing happened and doesn't flirt with me anymore really. I feel used. Now even the guy that liked me before has a girlfriend so its like he has full range to me without feeling guilty to his friend, but he doesn't want me. Its like I can't move past this and him yet cuz I feel so rejected. Should I talk to him or leave things alone? Was he even hitting on me or was he just using me to see if I could be hooked up with his friend?

Hi its been two weeks and I happened upon your question, so if you are still there I will offer this advice...
I would say that you have encountered a couple of boys who are not sure of what they want and are just messin around with no real intentions of getting into any real relationship, so go ahead and let them be and find someone who could be of a mature state of mind that has respect for you and has more going for themselves than this. please dont try and offer your body to be accepted by any man, and dont try to get them to like you any more than they would naturally ok?
just let the interest develope in a natural way between you and who you would meet in the future.and dont get in a hurry for sex...you can take the time to get to know your self and what you can become as a woman by just simply exploring your own body in a way that you can try new things and new ways of giving yourself sexual pleasure...try the bathtub water as it comes out of the fawcet for starters...and just leave the boys/young men alone for awile ok? and get to know yourself, and learn to enjoy yourself, as you become more assure of yourself, as a woman, and what you would want in a man.there is time for everything and now is the time for you, ok? good