I have been dating a female for about 10 months and we started talking about our sexual history. She told me had sex with 21 different partners and she is 22 years of age. I really like this girl but since she told me her history it has turned me off and it bothered me at the same time. Ever since she told me about her history I don't have the as much respect for her as I use to. What should I do?
That's why I don't tell the guy that I'm dating about my sexual history. Not that it is alot but the way I feel is that that is in the past and really it isn't their business. And I think some guys feel the same way. It's like the saying don't kiss and tell.
I appreciate the Girl who was frank, She is going for the pleasure and a women get pleasure with different men though no body admit to her Hubby. It is her birth right to mate with her Choice.How you can tell that you are her only Choice or liking she may be having few liking in you that is why she has stuck for 10 month.
I really like this girl but I don't know if it is right for me to look at her differently. I can't help it but ever since she told me I have a negative perception about her. If she told me 10 different partners then it would have been no big deal because that is reasonable. We have a great relationship, I really care for her but should I let something like this effect our relationship?
I can understand that her having many partners in the past might bother you. But if you get along great with her why are you judging her? I think there might be other flags (warnings in your eyes) that are waving at you because in my opinion this shouldn't really make or break a relationship.
I believe a woman who can have multiple sexual partners without being emotional attachment with a person has the potenial to become unfaithful if she decides. Because she see sex as just sex, and when the opportunity presents itself it is easily to cheat sexually because she doesnt' have to be emotionally attached with that person.
How do you know that she wasn't emotionally attached to these men, and it just wasn't right and it ended. But now that you and her are together for 10 months that maybe she found the right man this time. It does take awhile to find someone right in this dating world.
OK let's do some math. If she started dating at 16. And now she is 22. That's 6 years. Divide that by 21. That gives you about 3.5 guys a year. I think when we were all young we might have had alot of bf/gf not that we slept with all of them but being that young you also don't know what kind of man or woman you are looking for. And when people get older usually the number of people you sleep with lessens. My opinion I don't think that is that much. Just because you might not have had that many people doesn't make her a bad person.
