Here's a question that has been on my mind for a while now...What does it mean if my boyfriend always says that he bases his attractions to people more so on their personalities than looks? He says I'm cute and skinny and all that, but never says I'm pretty or even hints that I'm a little bit attractive. It could just be me because I am VERY self-conscious and always need reassurance. I don't know if this is a legitimate concern or not. Please help!!

Maybe your boyfriend is telling you that he isn't shallow that personality is more important to him then looks. I know it is hard but you need to like yourself and feel beautiful and confident. Then you don't need reassurance from people. Hey I know it feels great but others can see your low self image of yourself. And when you are confident, it also projects your good looks also.Believe me I went thru what you are feeling and it took me a really long time to like myself and having low self image of yourself will effect your relationship. Good luck