Hi folks.....Where is a good place to start off meeting guys?? *NICE* ones.....in the age bracket of late 30's to 40's? And what do you think most are 'looking for' in a woman.....BESIDES sex!! LOL

Where do you want to meet me?

LOL, just kidding!

J

[QUOTE]Originally posted by firefitr301:
Where do you want to meet me?

LOL, just kidding!

J[/QUOTE]


I'm NOT!!

O.K. Mr. fireftr guy, don't you have a wife???? I know you say just kidding but come on now.....

Pep..Do you go to church? I think some churches have a singles group or something. Coffee shops maybe? I think by the time a guy reaches his late 30s early 40s he is not just looking for se.x. They are usually confident and successful and looking for someone to share thier life with.

[QUOTE]Originally posted by sahmommy:
O.K. Mr. fireftr guy, don't you have a wife???? I know you say just kidding but come on now.....

LOLOLOL!!!!

Pep..Do you go to church? I think some churches have a singles group or something. Coffee shops maybe? I think by the time a guy reaches his late 30s early 40s he is not just looking for se.x. They are usually confident and successful and looking for someone to share thier life with.[/QUOTE]

.....Church????? ...I don't mean *THAT* nice LOLOL!!! Really tho....I use to be an active member at a church....but I dropped out of it....another story. A coffee shop would be great but....sigh....none in my area Maybe a hardware store
....Keep thinking.....send me more ideas....I'd really appreciate it!!

Hey now, yes I have a wife who i love dearly but did you read my last post? She did give me permission! LOL
Besides, if my reading is correct, mypepsee is looking for someone who doesn't only want sex. Right?
Hmm, lets see.....I do like to give massages.........LOLOLOLOL

All right fire guy, I'll let you off this time. My best girlfriend told her husband to find someone else to have sex with. H'es too []whi.pped to do it (thank god) but she told him that because he is always on her, groping, asking for sex. She has a low sex drive. I think people are just different and sometimes there isn't any way to fix them. I am rooting for you though.

Pep, ya, I don't go to church but my ex belongs to the singles ward at his so that is why I suggested it. No coffee houses? Not even a Starbucks? In San Francisco you can find one about every 10 feet. What about friends setting you up? My hairdresser meets guys on line. She hasn't had much luck but I'm sure there's a few good ones there.

[This message was edited by mod_kelly on 07-30-03 at 03:32 PM.]

So, is it really wrong to cheat if all that is wrong in your marriage is sex. My wife just doesn't care if we ever do it again. But everything else, honestly, is really good.

Mypepsee, as for what guys want in a lady other than sex....well for me it would have to be how easy it is to talk to the peticular woman. Sometimes, women can be intimidating because of there beauty or demeanor when actually they are really, really nice people.
Nice body helps....LOLOLOL

J

Pep, sorry to stray from the subject but I have to respond to Fire. Yes, it is wrong to cheat no matter what, even if your wife tells you that it's ok. She doesn't really mean it. I am proof that these things don't work the way they are envisioned, I am married to the "other" guy (refer back to threesomes ,fantansies). If your wife has not done so, she needs to speak with her doctor. It IS NOT normal to never want sex again. Does this include or.al sex? At times, every woman has gone through that but it usually comes and goes. Birth control pills make me that way. Even if everything else is great, sex is a huge part of a marriage. This is something that only you and her share and that creates intimacy. Tell your wife that you miss the closeness, maybe she doesn't realize how important it is TO YOU.

[QUOTE]Originally posted by firefitr301:
Hmm, lets see.....I do like to give massages.........LOLOLOLOL [/QUOTE]

.......now *THAT* I could use

[QUOTE]Originally posted by sahmommy:
but she told him that because he is always on her, groping, asking for sex.

........now *THAT* I wouldn't put up with!!....there other ways that are more pleasant!!


No coffee houses? Not even a Starbucks?

......nope!! Do you believe it!!! Grrr!!

What about friends setting you up? My hairdresser meets guys on line. She hasn't had much luck but I'm sure there's a few good ones there.[/QUOTE]

........hmmmmmm Are you kidding!!?? They don't like to share
.....on-line....I THINK would be cool......I chat with people all over the *WORLD!!!* One evening at 2:30am I met a guy that lives in SOUTH AFRICA!!!! Both he & I talk by voice over the AIM
It was sooooo cool!! The only problem is is our time zones are way different

[QUOTE]Originally posted by firefitr301:
So, is it really wrong to cheat if all that is wrong in your marriage is sex. My wife just doesn't care if we ever do it again. But everything else, honestly, is really good.

Oooooh come on now!!! Your wife REALLY LOVES YOU!!! If I was in her shoes and my hubby strayed to see what's greener over the fence it would break my heart

>..well for me it would have to be how easy it is to talk to the peticular woman. Sometimes, women can be intimidating because of there beauty or demeanor when actually they are really, really nice people.

COUGH COUGH.....Well...."BEAUTY" ?? Hey I'm almost 50...but I'm also a 'nice people' .....I am looking for someone who *REALLY* LOVES to have a fun & has an awesome sence of humor. I just need someone who's willing to keep up with me and have a GREAT time

>Nice body helps....LOL
J[/QUOTE]

.....Get real.....you'd haffta settle for the "really really nice person"

I would suggest meeting guys online especially if you don't get out much. I met my husband thru match.com. That is something that I never thought I would do but I was single for a really long time and because I was a single mom I didn't get a chance to go out much. So I finally gave in to a friend's advice and tried it and after about a month I met my husband. I would recommend something like that over metting guys thru chat rooms. I don't trust those things. Just be careful.

I met my BF on the computer too...and we have been toghether over a year now!

[QUOTE]Originally posted by seyshell:
I would suggest meeting guys online especially if you don't get out much. I met my husband thru match.com. That is something that I never thought I would do but I was single for a really long time and because I was a single mom I didn't get a chance to go out much. So I finally gave in to a friend's advice and tried it and after about a month I met my husband.[/QUOTE]

This sounds like a *great* idea Does 'match.com' cost something to use?? Tell me more about it....ya know...?? DETAILS DETAILS!!!! ALSO...seyshell...?? ....if you are comfortable doing this...could you give me your email addy so we could talk about this OFF the board......I'd give you mine but since *I'M* the one looking for a guy and the fact if I gave you my addy...this board is totally 'open' to the whole world & I would'nt like to get alot of 'flakes' emailing me. OR if you can think of an easier way to exchange addys let me know

[QUOTE]Originally posted by wannabesdm:
I met my BF on the computer too...and we have been toghether over a year now![/QUOTE]

GEEEZ...I've been 'on-line' for about 15 years and really never thought about this!! NOW I've got 2 proofs it CAN be done!! *HEY* I just had a *GREAT* idea!!!! Maybe we could give "The B&B Show" To have *THIS* as a topic on their show!!! Altho I wouldn't be able to watch it cuz my cable service doesn't carry the "Discovery Health" channel

thanks.

I don't mind exchanging emial addresses but I'm like you, I really don't want everyone to have access to it. There's a way we can do it w/o everyone else knowing but I don't remember how. Match.com does cost something but there's a little trick to it. Maybe the moderater will help us out w/ the email exchange and I'll fill you in!

[QUOTE]Originally posted by seyshell:
Match.com does cost something but there's a little trick to it. Maybe the moderater will help us out w/ the email exchange and I'll fill you in![/QUOTE]

How could we ask her/moderater???...I'd really like to hear what you have to say about 'match.com'