a friends boyfriend loooks at adult internet porn and it drives my friend crazy. I tell her it is pretty normal: just like buying a girlie magazine. She disagrees and feels insulted.I think it is normal for men to do such things and she shouldn't feel so insecure about it. She is a beautiful gal. Any thoughts??

Unfortunately, looking at porn can sometimes lead to other temptations. I dated a guy that looked at porn and I thought it was the end of it but then I found out he was talking to girls on other adult sites. At what point is it cheating. Looking doesn't always stop at looking. I would rather have my guy looking at magazines than real people.

Bottom line is if your friend is not ok with him doing this then he should honor her desires and stop. If he refuses then it is a pretty clear case that he doesn't care too much about her issues and she should consider moving on.