There's a girl I see around campus sometimes, and everytime I do we speak, but usually among friends. I have never actually been in an appropriate time or place to tell her how much I am interested in her. What's more is that I usually find out from her friends or mine. after the fact, that she has a boyfriend. I have met her about 10 times in three years.
I graduate in May and so does she. I am not certain but I don't think she's had the same boyfriend all this time. As a matter of fact, I have never seen her with a boyfriend. So the question is, Should I or shouldn't I?
Does anyone think the next time I see her that maybe I should just go ahead and invite her to lunch, try and talk intimately with her, or just nevermind her all together? I'm telling ya she's a perfect catch. A sense of humour, smart, friendly and damn good looking. As a matter of fact, I actually sat and watched an entire episode (or two) of Trading Spaces because Paige Davis looks like this girl and is a perfect personality match. It's uncanny.
As for me, I consider myself fairly handsome I guess. I'm quasi-athletic, I was in the Army before college, and I'm a senior now...MEANING that I am already over the age for most of the girls that I see on a regular basis. And too many of the girls who have careers and have graduated already are not interested in a guy that still have a year to go.
If you don't, you know you will regret it. And there's no hurt in asking!! Next time you see her, ask what she's doing for lunch...or if she's with her friends...ask what they are doing tonight or this weekend...maybe you could hang out in a group with her friends and yours maybe. Just get her phone number for now maybe...no harm there!
And I don't really agree with your statement that girls who have graduated have no interest in a man who has a year left. I am also behind in school and will have gone to college for 5 1/2 years by the time I graduate...lots of people these days do not graduate in four years..it doesn't even seem common! So don't worry about that. Everyone has their own schedule and no one really cares. Ask that girl out!
