I have been dating the same guy for over a year. Recently I discovered he cybers with girls all the time. He says its all just fantasy and normal and If I wanna cyber with guys it's ok, as long as we are faithful with each other it shouldnt matter he says. He says Im beautiful but cant be every type of girl and he likes too look at all kinds of girls asian,white,black, redhead you name it, I cant be all types for his fantasies. I thought fantasy was in your head to enjoy, not to act out on-line. Am I over reacting about this? confused about the boundaries of what healthy and what crossing the line.
That guy sounds like a total jerk! I wouldn't put up with it...my ex bf did the same EXACT thing...we would come to my parents house and he would do it with them here in the same house...it always made my blood boil. I begged and pleaded for him to stop but he never would. Finally I just had my parents to unhook the internet I told them that I wouldn't need it for anything. Then...I found out that he had been going to the local library and switching emails with the women...there was nothing I could do so I just ****ed it up and forgot about it....it was an abusive relationship. If I were you I'd put his a*s on the road...you deserve much better then that! Instead of cybering with other women he should be showing you that attention. That makes me so mad to know that you are going through that...
All I can say is...'get out'. Cybering is still not being faithful because it's lustful acts towards other women no matter that it's online. It's still something that he thinks on and does even if it's not in person. If he loved you, he would stop when you asked him...not begging, but simply asking. I don't think it's right.
He should be fantasising about you, Goddammit! I'm sorry but (no i'm not sorry) that guy is a real idiot. Get the heck away from him. If he can be so unfaithful online and even switch emails you better get a reality check - he could be just as unfaithful offline in real life as well. I'm sorry if this is a rude awakening but you had to hear it up front.
