my boyfriend said we always have the same sex please help any ideas of how to spice it up

buy a book that explains new positions, techniques, etc. i have a few and they really help when we feel like we have become redundent!

i just read your first post about not positions - sorry, Maybe you could take a trip together to your local sex toy shop - just being in the store and looking at the toys makes us a little excited. Try a new cream, massage oil, cooling gel, get a new vibrator.

This may sound strange but my husband showed me an article someone wrote about buying a cordless remote vibrator you can wear anywhere. They would take it to dinner, the movies anywhere, he would have the remote and push the button whenever he wanted to and for her it was a surprise or a little "treat" i guess you could call it and by the time the date was over and they were home it was a give in to make love. I think its a fun idea but havent tried it yet for sure going to be looking into it soon.