My husband and I are going on 6 years together, we have two children 3 and 2, and we still have better sex every time we do it, but I have an issue, and I am not sure if there is something wrong with me or what, but I do not enjoy receiving oral sex--it seems to be okay for a couple seconds and then it is just too overwhelming (I orgasm right away) and then it feels not good. I almost dread when my husband is going in that direction I do everything in my power to detour him somewhere else, but sometimes that doesn't work because giving oral sex in like his #1 favorite thing to do--could someone please help me to figure out how to make this more pleasurable!! I have even tried to make him do it different ways, but hot breathe, tounge etc in that general area is like instant orgasm, and then after that I just don't like it! HELP ME PLEASE!!

ever thought of telling him?
"you know baby...I com so fast that I would really like to enjoy it for a while...you know make it last longer...so I would like to go about it in a different way other than going right to it then I will be able to have a greater orgasm than what Im being left without now...so we'll play hide and seek and I will point to where you should go next...ok?ok.
you see...men go for challenges than being told what to do...its the "problem solving" in all of us.

there are phsyical therapist that can give you exercises activities trhat could maybe help, or you could ask your dr about it, but if it's not something that is giving him pleasure..just ask him, if he's ok with it,....he'll try something else

I am a consultant for a company that gives inhome parties for ladies-sorta like Tupperware.
We try and teach our ladies to take control of their lives and not just in the bedroom. One thing we have is a flavored powder that You apply on yourself. At first not on the breasts or vaginal area. Tell him he has to find all FIVE areas before he can go any place else. The trick is you only put the powder in four places. Keeps him tasting for a little while. There are a lot of GAMES you can play to prolong the actual "ending". Also, you may want to look into Kama Sutra...

Sounds like a fun game...