hey there, i really hope SOMEONE can help me with this. ive been with my fiance for 5 years now, and
we just got engaged in july. we live together now, and i love him very much as i know he loves me. now for the problem. i have a higher (much higher) sex drive then he does. so yea im one of those girls that actually does have an orgasm, every time, in fact i get quite a few every time.
so sex is great for me, but he says that he doesnt enjoy it as much... so what do i do to fix this? i mean i want sex like at least once a day, but he doesnt want to as much as me..every few days or so hes in the mood. and hes uh, above average, and our sessions usually last bout 1/2 hour to one hour so its not a confidnence issue at all. so what is the problem i wonder? can anyone help??

Well you are just now getting your first taste of the usual stuff you get in a marriage. I know you are not married yet but since you two are living together and doing everthing a married couple does you are experiencing some of the challanges a marriage goes through.

It is very rare to have two persons that have the exact same sex drive and desires for the bedroom. You have a high sex drive and he on the other hand seems to have an average sex drive. Neither of you are wrong or messed up but to create peace and harmony in a relationship both of you need to find that middle ground - compromised position. Suggest that you sit down with your man and discuss what is ideal for you and then get him to explain the same for him. Make an affort to meet him in the middle, i.e. maybe agree to have sex every other day. Once you both agree then it is very important that you both try your hardest to live up to the deal.