Question:
i just had my reduction done on 11/16/04. i have always had large breast.42dd my problem now is that since i had the surgery, i have been do depressed and cry everytime i look at or even think about my breast. i know that i wanted to have my surgery and took a long time before i came to my decesion, now i feel like i lost one of my best friends. did any one else every feel like this, and if so will it past?

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I had my op on the 2/11/04 and I feel so depressed. I have had no help or support from the hospital at all. I've been left to care for my wounds and change my dressings, which I have not done properly as I have gaping wounds and infections now. I'm now wondering why I've done this. I've wanted this done for years and people keep telling me that I'll eventually feel happy and it's going to be worth it. I wish I could believe them as all I do is worry and cry and I've had enough.

I suppose you miss them as they were a part of you for so long. It's strange looking in the mirror isn't it? I see these lovely looking ( apart from the wounds) pert breasts and they're not mine.

Some patience and time is what's needed and I hope you feel happy about them very soon.

Take care xxx

Hi ... I had 38DD Breasts by my 7th grade year!! They caused me physical and emotional pain! I am a dancer and have been for 5 years!! I could not jump high or run or anything with out them killing my back and ribs!! I got made fun of by everyone at school and even family memebers!! It hurt me more than anything ever had!! When I visted my family doctor in December 2003 she refered me to a plastic surgon!! I went thinking there was no way because I was too young or we couldn't pay for it!! He said that I was a canidete for the surgery and soon after our insurance covered it!! I was so excited!! On June 9th 2004 2 days after school went out!! I went into surgery!! It was a breeze! I had no problems at all! I was out shoppin a week later!! Over the summer I noticed they were still huge!! They honestly didn't look like anyone had touched them!! I cryed myself to sleep every night!! I wanted to go back to school my 10th grade year with a new slimer body smaller breasts and a better attitude for myself!! I wanted to be able to find a great guy who wanted me for something other than my chest!! But I went back to school and not one person to this day has even noticed I had surgery!! I still get teased my friends and family!! I spent 4,000 dollors and went threw all that pain for nothing!! I am so depressed and have just totally lost faith in myself and what I look like!! Since I have gained 15 pounds!! I just don't know what to do!! I am now 16 and my life has been ruined by my breasts!! My email is Blondbrandi7@yahoo.com I would really appreciate any email that anyone would like to send me on the subject!! Thank you all!!

[This message was edited by mod_kelly on 11-26-04 at 08:57 AM.]