Me & My boyfriend have been dating for 9 months. We've already had sex, infact I lost my virginity to him. The first 3 months of our relationship was amazing, he would come over everyday and stay until late at night [3 or 4 times he stayed the night]. But then his whole attitude changed. The 4th month of our relationship I gave him my virginity which made him happier for awhile. Then he went back to the bad attitude. A few more months after that, we got into a big arguement and he went to a concert with his cousin. While he was at the concert he got drunk and made out with my best friend. I'm not sure if I'm ever going to be able to trust him again...but I really want to. Now all we ever do is argue, either I start it because of jealousy, or he starts it because of his anger. It seems like were never happy anymore because all we do is argue. And I dont know how to make our relationship happier. I just need to know what to do, please help?
Yes, all seem to be in agreement here. The feeling I get is that he is intentionally trying to sabotage the relationship. The thrill of the chase is over and he looses interest. I think he personally doesn't have the back bone to break up with you himself, so he's doing things that will make you want to break up with him. That way he can play the sympathy card and say "she dumped me". Sorry. There is somebody out there that will be a better fit for you. When you find that person you'll see how much easier the relationship is. Just don't go out and seek this Mr. right because you'll never find him. It will just happen someday. Good luck!
