Alright there's this guy i grew up with i've known since i was 7 years old and he is my brother's good friend. My brother is well known in the neighbourhood so i have alot of haters that don't like me. At that time the only words from the guy were "hello?. . . where's your brother. . .you know me don't you?".
Im 21 now and at first it was just a cute puppy love thing by the time i was like 17 it got serious and physical at 18 we spoke at that time he would smile whenever he saw me and look me right into my eyes he walked me to the shop and in that short time i managed to squeezesome info from him. I found out that he is just a year older than me and his birthday is two days after mine! At a cousin's funeral i felt someone watching me and i saw that it was him but whenever i looked he would try to look away . . what does that mean?
I saw him recently and we greeted each other and all like normal.
Over all he was my FIRST REAL crush i have never felt this way about other guys i've liked and dated. . .can someone plaese help me? i think i'm in love but i could be wrong and again it's not fun if only one person has the love and the one you want isn't feeling it you know?

Why don't you try approaching him, ask him to accompany you on an outing, whether to the park, or a casual lunch. Try to scope things out. If things don't completely "click", than yes, you may be resigned to being just friends. You never know until you try.