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Hi,
I've been living with my boyfriend for three years. I say boyfriend but he's really a 27 yr old separated father of two. Anyway we've been having problem's for two of those years. Periodically over the last year he has asked me to move out and give him some "space" and told me that it would solve our problems. I didn't like the idea and have tried to avoid it because no matter how he puts it it sounds like he wants to break up and is too afraid to tell me. Eventually last summer I chose to try to mopve out to give him space and he changed his mind the day I was supposed to move in. I was relieved and happy to stay but confused. Then, a few months ago I did move out at his request. A month later he moved in with me. Now 4 months later we can't talk to each other without fighting, we knew we were having problems communicating a couple years ago and its just gotten worse. But today after an arguement he packed there stuff and left. This weekend he leaves town for three weeks and his daughters go home. Is he finally taking his space? Do you think he'll come back? If he does what do I say and is it ever going to work again? We just can't stop fighting.
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