everytime i watch what not to wear nobody ever has stockings or pantyhose on when they wear a dress. i have two weddings in november in upstate new york. do i wear stockings or not?
I normally don't wear pantyhose, but in the winter, I prefer to be able to feel my extremities , so I go with a sheer black stocking if it's a dressy event. If it's more casual, I wear tights. Bare legs are an option, but in northern climates, it's just too cold.
Opaque black tights with black heels are a current look for evening events. Add suede or patent high platforms. There are hose with a bit of silver glitter that look great, too.