I don't know if anyone remembers, but my husband and I were trying to have another baby, aiden just turned 21 months and I have a 6 1/2 yr old step son.. About 2 weeks ago, I had a miscarriage, was only about 5 weeks along, but I took it very very hard.. Kept thinking I did something wrong...

I think all of us who've had miscarriages believe it was something that we did. It wasn't. I lost my first and did not cope well. I now have an 18 month son and my second is due in Feb. Even now, I often think about my little one in heaven. A miscarriage is horrible, and I think it's worse when it is the first baby. Trust me, you'll be ok. You won't ever forget, and no one says you should, but you'll be ok.

proudmummy, I'm so sorry for your loss.

I'm sorry to hear about your loss proudmummy. It's a hard thing to go through. I've had two of them myself. It's not easy but you will get through it. You won't forget about it but when you learn you're pregnant again you'll have something new to focus on.

I am 24 years old, and have had no luck in my pregnancies. I have had 7 miscarriages. I have had operations, seen specialist and still no luck. My boyfriend and I are still trying, but nothing's working.I am beginning to lose hope. Why can't I be fixed?What can I do different? I keep trying to think positive but it's hard.We havent been pregnant for 5 years and now can't get pregnant at all. xoxo

losing-hope, I'm so sorry for your losses and your pain and frustration.

My friend tried for 7 years to conceive. Eventually, she and her husband decided to adopt instead, and she actually found out she was pregnant when she went in for her physical for the adoption agency.

Don't give up yet...it just might happen when you least expect it...