My wife and I have been married for less than a year. I'm 25 and she's 24, first marriage for both. Our sex life was pretty good before we got married and it has been going downhill ever sense. I am her first and only sex partner. Every time we have sex I have to keep her going with my hand down there also. I dont mind that but sex is hurting her reguardless. We are down to sex max 3 times a MONTH. She lays on her back and we have to get it over with as soon as possible because it physically hurts her. I often go down on her to get her going. She does orgasm every time and I time mine to co-inside. After sex she says her vagina is on fire and I feel like I just raped my wife.

All those issues come after I basically beg her to have sex and she finally lets me. She says she doesnt want to have sex with me because I don't keep the relationship new and exciting. We go out to eat with each other a couple times a week. I own my own business and work 6 days a week so I could do more to keep it exciting but I didnt think this would be such a big problem within months of getting married.

Any advice??

Couple of things from your note:

1) If she really is having burning pain down there during sex she might have a physical problem or condition. She really needs to schedule an appointment with her OB.GYN and have an examination.

2) She is making claims that you are not keeping it new and exciting? This is where the two of you need to communicate better with each other. Need to sit down with her and talk it out in a calm and collective fashion to get the issues out on the table. Since you two are new to marriage this is something that takes a while to get the hang of - but you will find that couples that learn to communicate become very close and have very robust marriages. So sit down with her and let her describe what is on her mind and you be a good listener (meaning don't attack her or get offended if she says a few things that ruffle your feathers). Once she is done agree on a plan forward and both agree (like a contract) to stick with it and agree to continue to open up to each other when things get a little off balance.