i'm new here just wanted to get some advice about the situation I'm in:

We have been together almost a year he is 10 years older than me, When we first meet he always showed me affection and he still does some what. Im 28 and had a few intmate relations with a few guys, this is what i dont get in out sex life. I like alot of foreplay because i have trouble having orgasm i know i only have 2 in my entire life. But he dont like to. I'm all about oral sex for both of us, dont mind giving it to him but he refuses to give it to me for some odd reason he says he dont like it ( never been with someone that dont like doing that even thought thats my favorite) so my question is how can get over this if he dont do that to enjoy sex so i can have an orgasm is there other ways to have one because when we have sex i love it but i dont have an orgasm and he gets affended. If there is anyone out there that can help me please leave your advice

These type of things require honest and open communication. You need to sit down with him and ask him what his issues are. Maybe he has had a bad experience? Maybe he thinks it is dirty or unclean? You can never fix a problem unless you get to the root. There are no two persons alike and the two must work together to find that middle ground where both are satified that they are working hard to satisfy the other. If he refuses to discuss the topic then he is showhing his immaturity in being able to maintain a long term relationship.