okay i have been with this guy for 3 yrs and i am now 3 mths pregnant. and he just told me a year ago he cheated on me. i freaked out and all i do is think about it. i dont know what to do. i am trying to work on this for the baby but it doesnt seem 2 be working. should i stay with him and see how it goes or should i leave him?

Thanks princess.....I actually find that if you dont know certain things by age
42.....there is a a problem. But culterly we were raised differently and I
believe he can be igorant in some facts. Needless to say we went on vacation
and I had to sit througha bikini contest. I didnt saya word PRAYING he would be
considerate of me...and tell me we can leave.but he didnt....so when we got back
I told him..bisacally how I felt and all his comments. and you were right he
had no idea how much it disrespects and or offends me. He doesnt really get it
though..how upset I got. But he said because he loves me, he wont continue
because now he is fully aware how MUCH it bothers me. SO we will see! I think
some things you should automatically KNOW as an adult but I guess not. YOu were
the only one who replied! thanks princess!!!!! wish me luck

I think you should give him another chance and just see what happens from there. It is very hard in today's society for single mother to raise her child without the help and support of the father. If for some reason it doesn't work out, I think you should take a break from men and try to establish a successful relationship with a man you can trust and depend on in the future.