My husband has been pushing me to try to find someone (female) to have a threesome with for almost all of the three years we've been together. He hasn't talked about it in a while lately, probably because we're living with his parents and have a kid now, but I know that once we get into a more financially stable position, he'll start at it again. There is something about the thought of it that just gets under my skin, and I'm having a hard time putting my finger on it. Could someone help me out here?
Well let's see - so you are having a tough time putting your finger on why you are troubled at the thought of having a threesome? Let me help here - how about marriage vows and morals to start? Fantasizing about other women or threesomes is one thing but acting on them is another. Every time I read about someone actually going all the way with this seems to really hurt their marriage beyone repair. So if I were you I would very clearly and loudly let him know that the threesome will never happen and to quit bringing up the subject.