So, my boyfriend has this problem with initiating sex - he never does it! When we first had sex, he wanted it every night, and I kind of felt pressured but I did it anyways because it made me feel good that he desired me so much... then it died down, and he only wants it sometimes. But I can't try to initiate because he instantly gets turned off. How in the hell am I supposed to get it when I want if me starting it turns him off?!