this topic is a little complicated, so i´m going to tell you things as i see them. this is
just my point of view, of why it came to this point.
I´m 29 years old, and for the last 25 years i´ve lived with my parents. My father always
been a rich person, not a millionaire but we always had everything we needed.
About 5 years a go he died, and the only thing he left us was debts, lots of them.So my mother, sisters and i, had to liquidate the debts, and we still doing that.
My friends have always been off the same social stattus as i´ve always been.So the girls i meet and go out are offcourse of that same social stattus.
my problem is this.in the last 3 years i had 3 girls that i´ve came to fall in love, completely. but it never works because when it cames to do something like going out to dinner, movies, vacacions etc etc, i don´t have any monney to do does things, and it all cames to an end.
I do not blame them,they want to do things with me but the truth is i can´t.
This is killing me inside.everytime i fall in love theres that problem again, and again.
Today i´m in that same situation, my girlfriend left her five years boyfriend to stay with me, and i know the same problem is going to appear.
Any advice?

well, I'm sure that if you stick around then someone will "pop" up with good advise that you will like...as for me, I have no other recourse than to say that if this woman left a "five" year relationship for you ...then you have better "live" up to what she expects of you,as in...what you have designed for her to see in you. ok?ok.
ps. finish school, get a job, and focus on your moms hardship...debts cant be liquidated. only assets.
pss. just to better understand your question...what country are you from? as in... your english could be rough to interpret...lest I be to coarse in my reply.
oops. edit>>>

[This message was edited by davidaevans on 04-18-05 at 01:21 AM.]

portugal

How is it that you can fall in love 3 times in 3 years. Doesn't sound like love but rather infactuation. Love takes time to develope. As far as your situation goes. I feel for you. Most relationships require receiving things. Unfortunately, money provides many THINGS. Hang in there and don't give up. If they leave you because you don't give them things then they are not worth having in the first place.