Some background: I just broke up with my boyfriend of about 5 months. I was very confused as to what I should do, but now I know I am over it and can move on.

Anyway, there's a guy I just met a few days ago. I had been talking to him over AIM (internet if you don't know) for a while before that and most of my friends know him (he's the best friend from home of one of my friends. I'm in college so people are from all over).

So, the first day I met him (Mike) we were watching movies and doing some other things and we were cuddling the whole day - any time I was with him. He came to visit his friend for his spring break (one week earlier than mine). So, we were together every day after we met. The first night that we were together he walked me out and kissed me right before I left. He told me that he doesn't usually make the first move like that. He also told me that he has only kissed one person other than me. He said the last time he kissed someone, or for that matter did anything with anyone, was about 2 years ago. He is a virgin. I was all giddy and couldn't sleep that night. The next day we went a little further, nothing sexual or too intimate, and he was so nervous because he had never done anything before that he started to shake. His whole body was shaking. I told him it was okay and it's normal to be nervous, that I was too when I first did things. Which is another thing that is very weird to me - I have more experience than he does. I have only been with one person and that was this passed boyfriend so I haven't been experienced for very long.

I was very comfortable doing things with him, still nothing sexual, and I had trouble with that with my ex. I think that is because with my ex I wasn't experienced so I was nervous about messing something up or doing something wrong. With Mike I didn't have to worry about that because I am more experienced than he is.

Neither of us know what this relationship is going to turn into. He lives in PA and I live in WV. I know that isn't TOO far, but it's still a pretty good distance. We are both usually somewhat reserved, but with each other we were very outgoing and extroverted. We felt very comfortable with each other. He also told me that I was beautiful and he loved my smile. He was trying to help me with problems I was having, giving me advice. He's just a great guy and I don't know what to think.

I was just wondering what others think of this and any opinions on what might happen down the road.

Thanks!

The reason i'm replyin is cause i have the same in a way but different to, as long as urhappy then goin to go fare in life, but when ur not happy is when u need to start worryin where is this takin me. So are u happy or not? if so then reply to this.

I am definitely happy. We tell each other all the time that we miss each other and he is coming to visit me at my school in a couple days. Also, he just got concert tickets for us! There's not a moment that goes by I'm not thinking about him. He makes me very happy and I wish I would have found him sooner.

Also, we have made our relationship official as a couple.

~Heather