Hi. My boyfriend frustrates me sometimes. He says sorry a lot though and we make up. But tonight, we were talking about yesterday. He said that someday when he gets married, he won't let his wife touch his money, but he'll support the family and everything. I asked him if he was serious or not... if he really wouldn't let his wife TOUCH HIS MONEY. He was like "I don't know". He asks why I take things seriously and why I get so frustrated with him. I said I would atleast want to know how we handle things in the future... because I don't wanna end up wasting my time (with him). He said I can't know what the future will hold. He doesn't like the fact that I take the future too seriously. I mean, everytime we see each other, we talk about marriage. Isn't THAT serious?? And this was just one of the topics that came up in the marriage conversation. "HIS" money...

Grrrr... I'm just annoyed right now. We're in love with each other. I mean come on. We talk about marriage all the time. I just didn't like it when he said I take things too seriously. Isn't this serious? My maybe-future-husband saying something like I CAN'T TOUCH HIS MONEY BECAUSE IT'S HIS?? What the crap is THAT about?

And no... I don't want to break up with him. I'm not going to. So please don't give me that as a solution. I had a dream today actually about breaking up... and I couldn't handle it. I cried my heart out. So yeah.

I just need... some advice. Thank you.